Susan Narjala

Keeping it Real

Making Space for Christ

It’s been stuck in my head. Like a line from a song.

Oh, wait. It is a line from a song. One that probably topped the charts a little while ago.

It’s a line from the beloved Christmas hymn, ‘Joy to the World.’

It’s a song of triumph and celebration. It lifts your spirit. And it’s just so… joyful (yeah, super original idea there!).

As for the line I’ve been singing and mulling over?

“Let every heart prepare Him room.”(Or, more precisely, roo-oo-oom)

It’s like Issac Watts, who wrote the song way back in 1719 (thanks Wikipedia), knew that almost three centuries down the road we would face the Crisis of Christless Christmas. He probably had an inking that in the midst our celebrating we would forget the Guest of Honor. Mr Watts had stumbled on one of our time’s greatest ironies: we get so wrapped up in our gifts that we forget to unwrap the Greatest Gift of all.

We give in to commercialism. We fight commercialism with homemade. We stuff stockings. We stuff our faces. We buy and we bake. We get elves for our shelves. We get bathroom towels embroidered with snowmen and reindeer. We even throw in a ‘Jesus, The Reason for the Season,’ pillow on the couch for good measure.

But preparing room for Christ in our hearts?

That may have to wait till January. You know, start the new year off on the right note.

But, Issac Watts reminds us that Advent is a time of anticipating the arrival of the King.

I liken it to how the hubbers and I go overboard with prepping for house guests. I may have mentioned in earlier posts –  the husband is neat freak extraordinaire and thanks to nine years of osmosis, I’ve been turned.

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Photo credit: Nicole Hanusek, Flickr

So, here’s how the guest room analogy fits in with Christ’s coming:

Taking the time

There is no getting around it – life is busy. Hosting another family in your home requires a mega time commitment.  It requires clearing your schedule to make sure they’re comfortable, entertained and have clean towels.

In the midst of the Christmas frenzy, we need to carve out time for Christ. Our pastor recently mentioned that the antithesis to fearing God is forgetting God. Not denying Him. Not offending Him. Just omitting Him.

Like the Christmas cards that X Christ out. That may make some roll their eyes. Maybe it is an overly simplistic view. But how would you like it if someone addressed a card to you with, “Dear X”?

Cleaning out the unnecessary stuff

Our guest room is multi-functionalism at its best. It’s a 11 x 11 room that we have worked down to its bare bones. It’s an office, it’s a playroom, it’s a guest room, it’s the room where one parent crashes when the master bedroom is too full of little peeps who don’t belong in there.

As a result, before house guests arrive, there’s always a heap of stuff shuttled off to Goodwill.

This Advent focus on ridding your schedule of the unnecessary. Learn to say no to one more commitment. Learn to say yes where it counts. De-cluttering Christmas may be just what your soul needs.

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Photo credit: Mike Mozart, Flickr

David says in Psalm 27, “One thing I ask from the Lordthis only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple..”

Can you think of the last time the ONE thing you wanted was to seek Him? When the ONLY thing you sought was to gaze upon His beauty? (I know that was rhetorical…but I say, me neither)

Rearranging the layout

Before guests arrive, our guest room gets a mini-makeover. It’s like HGTV crew came in – on a very, very low budget. Our sofa bed magically transforms into a queen bed with a fancy blue (oops, l mean azure) comforter. We re-arrange furniture, empty shelves of toys, display accent pieces that have nothing to do with Lego StarWars. Sometimes I even indulge in buying new curtains and flowers. There was this one time I wanted to impress the in-laws and actually painted some wall art for the room. (Of course, art is a term I use rather loosely, but that’s another story.)

Those little changes make our guests feel at home.

And sometimes we need those little tweaks to nudge us closer to Christ. Rethink, re-arrange and refocus so Christ has room. I love our family tradition of singing ‘Happy Birthday Dear Jesus’ on Christmas morning and having the kids cut a cake. It’s a simple idea. Not original and will probably be balked at in a few years. But, for now, it puts the focus on Christ. And everyone gets cake.

Having a welcoming attitude

No matter how perfectly arranged the room is, if I don’t have a heart of love for my guests it will soon become obvious that I’m putting up with them in the line of duty. I don’t want to do what I’m doing because I have to. I do what I’m doing as a response to their love or our friendship.

In the same vein, we can’t force ourselves to make room for Christ. We simply do it in response to the Sovereign One who gave up His majesty for a manger, who traded in His Kingship for a Cross.

Is there room for Him in our hearts this Christmas? Or we going to have to turn him away because our lives are too full to accommodate the abundant life that He promises?

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16 Comments

  • Regina Gadad

    LOVE this. Well written Susan! You are a talented writer.

    • Susan Narjala

      Thanks for reading and commenting, Regina! Wishing you a joy-filled, restful Christmas. Hope to see you in CA!

  • Rita Baird

    Thank you for sharing this! You are a wonderful writer!! This year, I’m forced to do less because of the new baby, but I actually find it refreshing to have more TIME to focus on Christ. A joyful Christmas is not dependent on how many presents you buy or cookies you bake or parties you can attend. It’s about a restful spirit that is truly grateful for the gift of Jesus.

    • Susan Narjala

      Thanks Rita! I totally agree – that’s something I need to preach to myself daily. Hope to see you when we visit CA.

  • Tamara Philip

    Beautiful and inspirational Sue!

  • Super Sue! Love it!

  • Shobana Paulraj

    Very well written Susan !! Something for all of us to think about. Thought provoking

  • Lovely thoughts and very well put!

  • Jacob George

    Susan this is a true work of art… absolutely superb! Epic!!!

    • Susan Narjala

      Thanks father and biggest fan 🙂

    • sanjay david

      A true christmas story for all our families Susan….Merrry Christmas

      • Susan Narjala

        Thanks Sanjay! Heard about all the awesome programs in the orphanage… great work!

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